Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Change the Game





Sports is something which most of the people are interested in , if not playing, then watching at least. Some people just want to witness a good game, and some die hard fan of their respective countries but at the bottom of their heart, everyone wants their country people to be on the winning side. 

Winner and Looser , ultimately these are the only two results of any sport. It's quite obvious, each individual playing any game desires to win it for their country, for the people watching them and for themselves.
And behind every participant, there are several people backing and supporting him, the coach,the supporting staffs and the whole country, so naturally sometimes the fear of losing becomes too much forcing them often to follow the rule of, by hook or by crook. 

There are rules for every sport but these days to value words of rule books are not being taken for consideration by the players . Value actions more than words have eventually been turned on to be the modern day rule of players. 
The act of others lets them respond accordingly whether to win or to lose and so do the value of each game has been lost. Players are relying upon the game play of others in order to decide their fate rather than focusing on their individual game. 
Relying on fixtures is turning to be an essential part of the game for various players.The game is no longer fair for all . 

There is a difference between a winner and a champion. The desire to be the champion is so much that players have no problem sacrificing their group stage matches deliberately because of which many talented players come and go just having a thought and a dream to be the champion. 
Now the sport is no longer left away from the dirty thinking of people. Doping test stopped players from consuming illegal drugs but now seems like they have found a smart alternative to it. 
The value of sports is lost somewhere in the wind of winning .The greatness and class of players are vanishing and seems like the counting of legends has been terminated in this century itself. 
The winning title has overpowered the spirit of the games. 

In the recently held London Olympic games, there were a lot of players caught in this act of bending of the rules . In badminton , two duos of China were disqualified for the act of losing deliberately so that they don't have to face another team of China participating in the same game before the finals and so that the gold and silver both can be added to the medal tally of China. Similarly, there were many similar incidents and many players accepted their mistake what they did to break the rule of the game. Unfortunately, some players do feel proud to bend rules as they think you need to do a bit more to be ahead of others, but they have forgotten the fact that they are constrained under the rules of the game. 

As the Olympic flame extinguished this time, a new dark spot has been marked in the games. 
Skillful players are hardly any and identifying talent has become more complex. 
There is a difference between winning and winning with respect. 
A player losing a game after a backbreaking performance is more honorable and respected than those winners bending the rules in the game. 

It's just not about winning somehow ,conquer the world as if nobody can point at you.   

















Saturday, March 17, 2012

Admire women.Dont Condemn.


             

Women are among the most exquisite and beautiful creatures created by god. We all want all beautiful creatures to look beautiful and ornamented rather than ugly. Speaking of delicacy, we handle all the delicate things carefully and respectfully.

But why do some men spoil their pettiness and don't treat them delicately. Women are human beings,they are not something that is for sale and you want to buy every beautiful thing available in the market.Why people make women feel unsafe for their beautiful appearance. God has made some beautiful things and they are one of them and you can't take them for granted. If diamonds could have life then I am sure you would have raped them too. So what shall we do, put women in locker. Do you want a men world? Want to be a gay? A world without women. Think. What if a group of women cuts off your penis while raping you. Only thinking this is out of the minds reach, but yes if you can then they too can but their minds are not cruel and they have sense of living which some of the men out there don't have.

The number of rapes specially in our nation is much of a number and all this happens because of the thinking what some men carry in their minds regarding women.The way people look at girls is the most unwanted thing.Recently I was walking on the streets and three people were walking ahead of me and they were constantly staring backwards while walking forward .I thought there might be something strange happening behind me so I turned back but everything was normal but then I realized they were staring at a women.I was in a moment of shock thinking how cheap some people can be.

Staring women have constantly been an important reason why do women feel unsafe to move on the streets. People doing hooliganism is an important reason which increases the polluted thinking of people. Do women comment on men ? Till date I haven't heard of any incident like that. Common have some decency.

Change in behavior and thinking can certainly make this nation developed. Just because of the polluted thinking of some people women think thrice about dressing themselves before going out and the parents too, who have daughter, are worried for their daughter thinking that there are some animals outside who may eat their daughters. Beautiful buildings,world class roads are not enough to make a country developed, the thinking should also change.

Take care of every female you see around yourself and keep them safe and secure. Don't use them.