Change the Game

Sports is something which most of the people are interested in , if not playing, then watching at least. Some people just want to witness a good game, and some die hard fan of their respective countries but at the bottom of their heart, everyone wants their country people to be on the winning side. 

Winner and Looser , ultimately these are the only two results of any sport. It's quite obvious, each individual playing any game desires to win it for their country, for the people watching them and for themselves.

And behind every participant, there are several people backing and supporting him, the coach,the supporting staffs and the whole country, so naturally sometimes the fear of losing becomes too much forcing them often to follow the rule of, by hook or by crook. 

There are rules for every sport but these days to value words of rule books are not being taken for consideration by the players . Value actions more than words have eventually been turned on to be the modern day rule of players. 

The act of others lets them respond accordingly whether to win or to lose and so do the value of each game has been lost. Players are relying upon the game play of others in order to decide their fate rather than focusing on their individual game. 

Relying on fixtures is turning to be an essential part of the game for various players.The game is no longer fair for all . 

There is a difference between a winner and a champion. The desire to be the champion is so much that players have no problem sacrificing their group stage matches deliberately because of which many talented players come and go just having a thought and a dream to be the champion. 

Now the sport is no longer left away from the dirty thinking of people. Doping test stopped players from consuming illegal drugs but now seems like they have found a smart alternative to it. 

The value of sports is lost somewhere in the wind of winning .The greatness and class of players are vanishing and seems like the counting of legends has been terminated in this century itself. 

The winning title has overpowered the spirit of the games. 

In the recently held London Olympic games, there were a lot of players caught in this act of bending of the rules . In badminton , two duos of China were disqualified for the act of losing deliberately so that they don't have to face another team of China participating in the same game before the finals and so that the gold and silver both can be added to the medal tally of China. Similarly, there were many similar incidents and many players accepted their mistake what they did to break the rule of the game. Unfortunately, some players do feel proud to bend rules as they think you need to do a bit more to be ahead of others, but they have forgotten the fact that they are constrained under the rules of the game. 

As the Olympic flame extinguished this time, a new dark spot has been marked in the games. 

Skillful players are hardly any and identifying talent has become more complex. 

There is a difference between winning and winning with respect. 

A player losing a game after a backbreaking performance is more honorable and respected than those winners bending the rules in the game. 

It's just not about winning somehow ,conquer the world as if nobody can point at you.   

Admire women.Dont Condemn.

             

Women are among the most exquisite and beautiful creatures created by god. We all want all beautiful creatures to look beautiful and ornamented rather than ugly. Speaking of delicacy, we handle all the delicate things carefully and respectfully.

But why do some men spoil their pettiness and don't treat them delicately. Women are human beings,they are not something that is for sale and you want to buy every beautiful thing available in the market.Why people make women feel unsafe for their beautiful appearance. God has made some beautiful things and they are one of them and you can't take them for granted. If diamonds could have life then I am sure you would have raped them too. So what shall we do, put women in locker. Do you want a men world? Want to be a gay? A world without women. Think. What if a group of women cuts off your penis while raping you. Only thinking this is out of the minds reach, but yes if you can then they too can but their minds are not cruel and they have sense of living which some of the men out there don't have.

The number of rapes specially in our nation is much of a number and all this happens because of the thinking what some men carry in their minds regarding women.The way people look at girls is the most unwanted thing.Recently I was walking on the streets and three people were walking ahead of me and they were constantly staring backwards while walking forward .I thought there might be something strange happening behind me so I turned back but everything was normal but then I realized they were staring at a women.I was in a moment of shock thinking how cheap some people can be.

Staring women have constantly been an important reason why do women feel unsafe to move on the streets. People doing hooliganism is an important reason which increases the polluted thinking of people. Do women comment on men ? Till date I haven't heard of any incident like that. Common have some decency.

Change in behavior and thinking can certainly make this nation developed. Just because of the polluted thinking of some people women think thrice about dressing themselves before going out and the parents too, who have daughter, are worried for their daughter thinking that there are some animals outside who may eat their daughters. Beautiful buildings,world class roads are not enough to make a country developed, the thinking should also change.

Take care of every female you see around yourself and keep them safe and secure. Don't use them.

Warning 18+

18, mere an age after which we get access to many condemned things of life .Laws have been made but to unfollow. Many things can be brought under limelight regarding this age, which is being ignored from quite a long time.

After 18 we have the power to vote in our country, to get into some delicate matters, to watch repressive stuffs.

Although in reality, much before 18 people get access to those obscene things and develop immature thoughts. We go for an adult movie, on the back of the ticket it’s printed “above 18 only” but I haven’t seen any cinema check if a person is above 18 or not.

In fact I would tell my experience, we went to watch a movie "Peepli Live", an adult movie and along with us there were kids too around the age of 12-14 who enjoyed the movie without any ifs or buts.

Regarding what not to do, we do it, but if we consider the things which we must do after 18 like voting, hardly anyone thinks of voting as they attain the age of 18.

The level of sourness regarding voting once in an election is very less as compared to consuming alcohols, intake of tobacco, accessing porn sites and stuffs like this regularly.

See the most disappointing point, if a responsible person wants to vote before 18, anyhow he wouldn’t be allowed, although if he uses any wrong means, that’s a different thing.

But, if we consider those  unwieldy things there is NO restriction despite having restriction.

But the point is why we are more into those repressive stuffs before 18 and not voting at 18.The reason may be simple but why?

The obvious reason may be the level of interest.

Another disappointing phenomena is a child girl marriage. But, now also in many minute areas in the country people marry a girl who has not even attained the age of majority but the government servants still sleeps  at that moment.

It’s human nature, if a person is having profit and pleasure in doing something illegal then obviously they will do it because they know the further circumstances that nothing will happen but from the day when government starts taking serious actions regarding all this, they will certainly think thrice before going beyond boundaries . It’s unfortunate to see the government unreachable to those regions of the country.

A vital element regarding this age limit is the intake of tobacco among the youth who have not attained the maturity level and yet they smoke as if it’s their basic necessity sometimes more important than drinking water.

The law in India about smoking is that merchants  are allowed to sell cigarettes only among 18+ but they hardly bother to see to whom they are showing the way to hell in front of few money which ties a knot on their eyes.

The Government has set an age of majority i.e.18 and made laws on it but the level of strictness, we all are seeing. If today they took up all this seriously, then surely we can help the country cope with some of the key issues unnoticed at present.

And we the people of the country itself vote to make a government, so it’s the duty of each individual to have a positive approach with respect to the occurrences all around.

Mahi WAY ..

He is a man sent by god with lots of blessings. He carries humbleness, softness, coolness etc.

He was born in a small middle class family and with the same thoughts as all human beings have.

He was interested in sports and remained connected. He started his professional sports career with being a goalkeeper in football but soon his coach found a different thing in him. He suggested him to come in cricket as a wicket keeper rather than a goalkeeper in football. He came and performed very well.

Then his life took the first turn and he made cricket his passion. He started performing very well.Though he must have got a chance to play in INDIAN CRICKET TEAM earlier but due to politics his entry was delayed and he waited a long time struggling and sweating in his life. But at the age of 24 he was selected in INDIAN CRICKET TEAM.

His first match was against Bangladesh in Bangladesh.He couldn't have scripted this worst situation which he had in his first match.He came at six down and he was off strike and then without facing a single delivery he was run out.Then in following matches he performed reasonably well and after few matches he started showing his power hitting and winning matches for India. He became famous for hitting sixes.

He played his first world cup in 2007 in west indies where Indian team was out in the first round and came back home.All players must have been disappointed but he had other plans for the future.

In the same year after the disappointing performance by the Indian team in the world cup a new captain was difficult to find and then he was named the captain of the team.

Then his life turned and he had responsibilities of his team on him.Straight after naming him captain there was 20-20 World Cup lined up and then the Indian team went to South Africa for the 1st 20-20 World Cup.There was very less chances that India could win it because of a very new team and a brand new captain.But they gathered strength and he managed the new team very well and surprisingly leaded India to win that world cup.

His life changed. He became more than a VVIP.Indian team had found their suitable captain now. Soon he was named captain in all formats of cricket and his success continued with winning almost every series after a very long time.

Then one day India climbed to the number 1 spot in the test cricket under his captaincy.

Now he was a a lot changed man. He started playing very responsibly when he came in batting.He became one of the match winner of the team.

Now the Indian team was a very good build up team.

Then World Cup came again in 2011.Then Indian team had a good chance of winning it because of the confidence which he carried in his captaincy.With his cool mind and good decisions and his own brilliancy he brought Indian team to finals of the world cup.The whole country was overjoyed for the finals.Then came the finals on 2nd April 2011.A loss could have broken billions of heart but at the right time again he was the one who contributed in the finals also with an unbeaten 94 and winning the world cup for India with a huge six.

He doesn't have emotions that time also when the whole country was celebrating.He gave India what they were looking since 1983 when India won the first world cup and bring that wait to the end.

Thanks to this wonderful and amazing cricketer Mahendra Singh Dhoni.

Its Sad !!

Today I learnt about a very tragic story about which I had heard before few times but never knew it could really be true.
One of my dear friend with whom I am having friendship from about 1 month but today she told me about her pain which she is carrying from her childhood.
Today she was sad and I asked why but she dint told but in evening she told me why.Though the reason of her sadness was that she asked her dad that she wants new PC and cellphone and he refused.She don't have experience of having personal cellphone and she wants to have.Since she was sad she told me many things in which she also said she donates some money from her pocket money to poor children on every Sunday while she return from check up.I asked her "check up??????" .She said "yes check up".I asked "what????".She told me not to say this to anyone that's why I am not disclosing her name to my dear readers .She told that she is having problem in brain.I further enquired and she told me more and that she faints sometime and darkness surround her sometimes due to that and doctor has told her that she would be living not more than 25-30.I was shocked to hear that because I mean a person appears so normal in appearance but no one knows how is she really is and what is her state of mind.I could do nothing but pray for her that she lives forever and her problem gets solved permanently.She said that her problem was identified late so there are just 50% chances of her being alright.I beg my readers to  pray for that girl.She don't believe in god.I told her "have faith and one day god will make you alright" but then she said "god has not been kind to me since 15 years so whats the use of having faith".She is 19 at present and she is having this problem from the age of 4.Although I told her again and then she said "okay".She said that because of her problem and since she would live not much ,she doesn't make too many friends because she don't want her friends to become sad because of her.My breath stopped for a moment because of her kindness and what god has given her.I wrote this because I really felt her innocence.I am so glad that I am her friend.

This is so unfortunate that this world has so many variations in life of a human being.
This is just one story.There are billions of people suffering from various problems.I wish all of you for a healthy and wealthy life and I wish all your problems come to an end as soon as possible.

GLOOMY DAYS

I was never use to failures but suddenly in these two months I feel distressed.

Failure has met me for the first time.Sometimes I think I am sitting in a sinking ship.
I really never expected this but I don't know when this happened so quickly and unexpectedly.
I never dreamt of this mess.
I tried but the god thinks i needed to do more.
Then I think I  must have missed out a fundamental thing.
I tasted this for the first time and believe me it tastes really bad.
Feels like I have fallen in a place where there are more than one door and just a key
and given just shit to eat.
Feels helpless and I have no other thing to eat other than the shit to survive
till I find the suitable door for the given key.
I hope I find the right door as soon as possible .
I hope this period goes and never return back again.
Success Success Success come soon .............awaiting

THE BURNING NATION

Today the nation is surrounded by many situations.Some are major and some minor .

The people of our nation are also concerned or are they?

Some show a keen interest in every of their nation's burning cases,

some just look and think and forget 

and 

exceptions are always there for those who have created their own nation.

No doubt the nation is no longer the same as it was on the day of independence because from that day we have seen many developments.

Developments in the field of roads,structures of buildings,education standards,way of living and thoughts of a human being,outrageous technologies etc.

On the other hand we have seen developments in the brain of a human being;

to hoax,to assasinate,to embezzle innocent people,to convert white money into black,to convert a human being into an animal,to create forcible violation,to cheat,to create disputes,to fight amongst the country people in which they are living and much more.

Today we are seeing a lot of burning cases in our country,some of them covered and some uncovered.

For those covered, the whole nation is responsible for helping in throwing icecubes and cover it,

by which they may not suffer instantly but asymmetrically they also give a bright chance to the culprit to put themselves in fire again and let them think that they would be liberated because the whole nation is behind them to throw icecubes on their case and cover it.

But due to culprits there are always victims who are hurt and the nation contributes in hurting them even more

rather than showing the fire to burn those culprits and bringing them to their destiny.

Is today better than yesterday?

It maybe for those who have not faced terror yet and are still enjoying having their icecreams.

But if we do not show the fire today in an affluent situation to help our nation climb the ladders of success, 

then maybe one bad day we will be caught and then we say "why I dint stopped it before it reached my doors".